I'm Your Man: The Life of Leonard Cohen

It was in the winter of 1969, June to be precise, and it was refreshingly cool for a change. An interlude. Seven days away from the war, and I am not speaking of the one between the sexes. As would happen so often in subsequent years, the lyrics rolled around in my brain, as I stood on the shore of Sydney harbor: "...and the sun poured down like honey, on our lady of the harbor." The sun indeed felt like honey in the coolness... and there was so much more, just in that one song: that eternal aspiration for someone who liked his physics: "...and she gets you on her wavelength, and makes the river answer, that you have always been her lover..." `Lo these many years later, and thanks to the truly excellent biography by Sylvie Simmons that I finally learned that the harbor was Montreal, and the China that had been (relatively) so near to me, for the past ten months, the origin of those famous teas and oranges that Suzanne so graciously provided, had a local market run by some folks equally far from home, in that most beautiful of Canadian cities. Sure, the version that I loved was sung by Judy Collins, but I had tucked away in one of those cranial recesses, that the man who had provided a bit of peace, tranquility, inspiration, and even a bit of hope was Leonard Cohen. Cohen actively collaborated with Simmons in this impressive work. Typical of the ever so self-deprecating Cohen, he just wanted to make sure it was not a "hagiography," and it is not, and is all the stronger for it. It is a fitting tribute to him, and proved to be an essential read. There were so many missing pieces between the lyrics, and so much background for them, and Simmons provides much, but is content to leave some ambiguity on the table, just as Leonard would have. Leonard Cohen's ancestors, Lithuanian-Russian Jews arrived in Canada in 1860. When Leonard came around, in 1934, the family was prosperous upper middle class clothiers, and hence his tastes for suits, which is referenced in the title to the first chapter. He explored the docks and bars of Montreal in his youth, attended McGill University, wrote some good poetry, but as most folks know, you can't make a living that way, which forced him into music. Off to NYC, a couple of the right intros, and he was off to continued obscurity in the United States, but developed a strong following in Europe. He lived on the Greek Island of Hydra, where he met the Norwegian model, Marianne. He is a "Lady's Man," but not the type that would "notch a bedpost"... with the right chemistry, things just seem to happen. He lived with fellow Canadian Joni Mitchell for a year, and told the world once about a tribute from Janis Joplin in the Chelsea Hotel. "You can't tell the players without a scorecard," as they once upon a time cried at the stadium entrance. But Leonard seemed to be scorecard-less, summed up with his classic line: "I can't keep track of each fallen robin." Like Sir Richard Francis Burton before him, he tried on a few religions, reflecting the spirituality of his lyrics. He found a guru, of sorts, but mainly a friend, in Roshi, Joshu Sasaki, who is still alive at 107, and is famous for saying "Excuse me for not dying." (The most recent controversies concerning Roshi, surfacing in 2013, did not make this bio, published in '12). Cohen became an "ordained" Buddhist monk under Roshi's guidance... but then went off to India, in search of a Hindu guru. While being a monk, he was betrayed by his long-time financial manager, Kelley Lynch, and lost all his retirement money. The world, and perhaps Leonard, is better off for it. He "dusted himself off" and at the age of 73, skipped back out on the world stage, performing concert after concert to sell-out crowds, recouping his losses and more. And it was no "farewell tour," some of his best work may have been produced in conjunction with it, complementing the subject "Hallelujah". On tour, his wit was always with him, and he'd tell the audiences that the last time he was on tour he was "sixty years old, just a kid with a crazy dream." His most fervent fan-base will appreciate his comments on aging: "Everything changes as you get older; I never met a woman until I was sixty-five. Instead, I saw all kinds of miracles in front of me." And there is so much else in this very excellent biography, in which Simmons weaves his lyrics, for the "au courant," and presents balanced assessments, just as you might imagine Leonard doing. Europe and the United States. I thought Simmons nailed the qualities of Cohen's music perfectly: "dark humor, old-world romance, existential gloom and poetry." Why is this so much more popular in Europe than in the United States? A question to discuss, but never to answer, so cherie, just "Dance Me to the End of Love." 6-stars.

Sylvie Simmons' exhaustive biography of Leonard Cohen tells you practically all you will ever need to know about this poet/songwriter/singer who means so much to so many of us. She appears to cover every aspect of his life, having interviewed literally dozens of people including Mr. Cohen, himself. She notes near the end of the book that he neither asked her to write the book nor asked to read it. That tells me something about the integrity of the man. Throughout this long biography-- it weighs in at over 550 pages including voluminous notes-- there is hardly an unkind word to be said by anyone about him. (The only exception that comes to mind is that one man said that he didn't like Mr. Cohen, that he would not look you in the eye. The comment may say more about the speaker than Mr. Cohen.) He is portrayed as generous with his money, kind to a fault, a loyal friend, keeping friends for life, and loved by the many women in his life even after they are no longer involved with him. (Not one of the women has a derogatory comment to make about Cohen.) He was taken advantage of-- he was rooked out of any money for "Suzanne," one of his two most famous songs, and, more recently lost a fortune to Kelly Lynch, the trusted manager of his financial affairs. (Ms. Simmons notes that Lynch did receive an eighteen month prison sentence and an additional five years' probation for various charges.) Ms. Simmons' biography of course brings us current on Mr. Cohen's stay in the Zen Buddhist monastery on Mt. Baldy, California, what he called a "hospital for the broken-hearted," and his recently highly successful world-wide tour of which I had the good fortune to take in when he came to Atlanta, Georgia. He certainly makes it look easy to be a septuagenarian. Some intriguing facts about Canada's great poet I did not know: he read and liked Gore Vidal's MYRA BRECKENRIDGE, he is not a big fan of Frank Sinatra, and he enjoys watching Jerry Springer. And on at least one occasion he apparently was able to heal a very sick cat that IV fluids and an enema by the vet did not help by chanting to the cat for about ten minutes the "Ooooooooooooooooom" that he would have done in the monastery. When things are going rough with Mr. Cohen, he takes his mother's advice of long ago and shaves. Finally, he has often played at mental hospitals. Ms. Simmons tell of his visit to a mental hospital in Montreal when a young kid screamed at him, asking what this big-shot of a poet and singer with all the pretty girls with him thought of him. Mr. Cohen left the stage and hugged the mental patient. Surely such loving behavior on the part of him does come as a surprise to those of us long familiar with his novels, poetry and songs. What makes this biography unique and separates it from too many life histories where the writer plods on with fact after fact, often making an exciting life dull, is Ms. Simmons' adroit turn of phrase. Here are just a few examples: Albums that have been recorded but not yet released are "waiting their turn to come out, like buses in a depot." His unpublished or unfinished autobiographical short stories she sees as stacked-up "mirror-lined Leonard Cohen Russian dolls." About Suzanne Verdal, the inspiration for Cohen's famous song "Suzanne," Ms. Simmons writes that "Leonard the magician sawed her down the middle, then put the two parts back together--the carnal and the spiritual and made her more perfect than before." She says of the album "Various Positions," released in America in January 1986, that "it did not trouble the U. S. charts." And in her description of Cohen's THE FAVORITE GAME she says: "Each chapter of his account of how his life led to his becoming the writer of this story is presented as a separate scene, which he scripts, directs, stars in, and at the same time observes from the back row, smiling, while perfectly executing the popcorn-box trick on the girl in the next seat." I had to read that sentence three times to convince myself that what I thought Ms. Simmons was saying is, in fact, what she said. This biography is required reading for Leonard Cohen fans the world over.

My interest in Leonard Cohen was slight during my late high school/early college years. I liked so many performing artists better, particularly Neil Young, James Taylor, Van Morrison, and Joni Mitchell. For me, Leonard came across as weak, reedy, and tentative. However, I was blown away when I saw the Live In London (2008) concert video multiple times on my local Boston public tv station, WGBH. Truly, it's one of the best pop concerts I've ever seen, live or on tv, telling in its power, intensity, and musicianship. The backstory behind it is almost as good. Seems that an ailing seventy something, hiding out and meditating just off the shoulder of a greater LA freeway had been told, in about 2005, that his business agent needed watching. She did. Not only had she embezzled most of his life's savings, she had determined to change the course of reality by stalking him with tremendous conviction. Turns out that the London concert was, ultimately, the life's work recital that our remarkable buddhist friend would have otherwise tried to avoid. It's a great story that Sylvie Simmons tells cheekily and in great detail. I read the book voraciously in three days. Good so far. Highly recommended, in fact. What did I not like. Well, as a teacher, who intends to use this tome in an adult ed. setting, I was not thrilled by Simmons' casual mention, without any context, that Leonard had enjoyed sex with relatively underage girls in his early singer/ songwriter days. No context. No additional info. No mitigating circumstances. No buffer. Yes. I know. Caveat emptor. Let the buyer beware. So, this buyer is telling you, Reader. If you're living in Kafkaesque times in your own head. If you're an Arthur Miller fan, who has been duly warned about psychological McCarthyism, you've got some splainin' to do. And, some potential listening, too, about sexual predation. Regardless. Me? I'll facilitate the seminar anyway. Leonard is otherwise too multifariously good. And freedom to think, and judge like an adult, is too precious for me not to. Leonard, maybe you, or those you love, should have put that predation at least in context. Or, in shame, omitted it.

Beautifully written and, of course, a fascinating subject.

I would have to say this is the definitive biography of Leonard Cohen aside from the fact it's the latest it's also the best. I say it's the best if you want just that a biography and I think alot of new ground was revealed here that other biographers didn't enter also the writing style was good. The pitfalls of writing a biography of a prolific artist with lots of Albums/songs to cover it can start sounding like a manual in a hurry. Sylivie Simmons was very astute to skip over the bits that weren't interesting eg who needs a song by song account of an album that wasn't so great...yes i'll admit not every moment of Leonard Cohen's career was brillant but there were always brillant songs on his albums for the most part. You do get a great insight to his personality what they meant by his constant editing eg he once told Dylan it took him 15 months to write a song where Dylan bragged about taking 15 minutes to write a classic i think he was posturing but he probably meant he likes to write fast and fluid where Cohen's songs come across as hymns as each line is perfect and the editor in me couldn't really think of something better. Speaking of editor recent past biographies were horrid tons of mistakes of all kinds. I really liked Sylvie Simmons book you'll get the ultimate biography on Cohen if that's what your after. If your looking for deep insight on his art you might look elsewhere and I'm not saying it's a flaw of the book but a reality because your covering 75 years of a person's life in about 600 pages which you have to say you can't have or do it all.

This book is a comprehensive look at Leonard Cohen’s life and work. It’s extremely well-researched, documented, and executed. Simmons really did a fantastic job portraying Leonard and his life; I feel like I know him after reading this book. There were times in the first half when it seemed that the details got in the way of the flow of the book, but it soon found its rhythm. I am grateful to Sylvie Simmons for taking on this project and writing such a wonderful tribute. As she shows in his biography, Leonard Cohen lives on through his work. I was a huge fan before, and I’m an even bigger fan now.

Update: I'm now about 200 pages into this book. I am relishing the details and either I've gotten used to this author's style, blocked her out or she's stepped out of the way of the story. In any case it's become easier to read. There's still lots of lines like: the Chelsea hotel's elevator being just big enough for a man and a corpse, which is an observation attributed to no one other than the author. (Rolling eyes) It's worth it to keep going, though. The in-depth information is exactly what I was looking for. Original review: I am hating this author. She puts these stupid observations in that makes the book sound like she's using someone else's voice (one she's just trying on for now). I don't know what this author's relationship was with Leonard, but to me she sounds like she's trying to be the deep and interesting one. This book says it's about Leonard Cohen but is actually so full of this author's dopey attempts at being artistic that it is at least half about her. I don't care, or imagine anyone cares, to read a biography where the author doesn't dissappear. I imagine that sitting there with someone like Leonard would make you want to also be deep, thoughtful and profound, but she is definitely not! I just want her to shut up and focus on the subject. If you want to touch the mind of Cohen I suggest watching any of the hundreds of interviews you can find on YouTube and let this author explore her own voice by herself. It is amateurish writing and it's so disappointing I want to throw it in the trash, but I will probably finish it because I love Leonard's poetry so much. Read his "Book of Longing", it is breathtaking. I am completely head over heals for this master of words and would have loved to have been one of his fallen robins.

If you are a devoted fan of Leonard Cohen, this is a must read. The author must have interviewed hundreds of people- family, friends, children (2), lovers (countless), other musicians, fellow spiritual seekers etc for this book. Other than the very private & personal, I can't imagine a fact about Mr. Cohen's life not covered in this tome of a book. Along with Leonard Cohen, the author goes into much detail about so many people he met on his journey through life. Truly a magnificent tribute to one of the greatest poet, singers & songwriters. Thank you Sylvie Simmons for writing this book.

a great read, about a great man and not an hagiography at all.. leonard cohen the man is as much interesting as the artist.

Gute Bücher sind selten geworden. Diese Biographie über Leonhard Cohen von Sylvie Simmons gehört zu diesen seltenen Exemplaren. Ich habe mich von der ersten bis zur letzten der etwas mehr als 500 Seiten an diesem Buch erfreut. Es war immer wieder spannend weiterzulesen. In dem Buch steckt viel Arbeit. Es ist hervorragend recherchiert und zusammengestellt. Keine Hagiographie - die Autorin hält die Balance zwischen Nähe und Sympathie zum Gegenstand sowie Distanz und Kritikfähigkeit. Einzig die Schwester Cohens kommt nahezu nicht vor, was mich besonders im Kapitel über Cohens Kindheit gestört hat. Das ist für mich der einzige Schwachpunkt im Buch, der aber aufgrund der Qualität des gesamten Buches für mich nicht ins Gewicht fällt. Vielen Dank, Sylvie Simmons!

É a biografia que Leonard Cohen merecia.

Good biography so far. I love leonard Cohen and this has been a window to the mand behind the artist. Of course sometimes it's a bit hard to face the person behind and artist we love, with all of his or her flaws. The biography although not desteuctive does not indulge him and seems to be balanced and well documented.

Detaille avec beaucoup de photos.